resources with important information (i can add more if i find more/if more are suggested)

about me😁

hiii!! im abnomi but i also go by wyatt. i dont care which name you use for me :-) if you know me in real life i am so sorrymy pronouns are they/them, he/him, and foam/foams.
i am white, nonbinary, bisexual and demisexual.
i am a legal adult.i have ADHD and probably autism (among many other things), which impacts how i interact with others and how i function. PLEASE HAVE PATIENCE WITH ME I BEG OF YOULAST UPDATED OCT 10 2025

digital drawing of a round blue creature, with very short tentacles instead of legs. Has similar looking tentacles coming from back of it's head. It has circles instead of hands.

i look like this in real life!! trust me!!

things to note

boundaries

Please tell me directly if i did something wrong or made you uncomfortable in any way! It's very difficult for me to know without directly being told.
Don't vent to me without asking first!!! You are 100% free to ask me for help but dont message me your struggles out of the blue.
you are absolutely free to use my art as a pfp or anything like that but pls credit!!

etc

i block a LOT of people...sorrrry.... it usually isn't anything personal. feel free to dm me somewhere else to get unblocked
i need social breaks a lot, i get overwhelmed easily. I'm okay with DMs, don't feel discouraged to talk to me!!, but i generally take a long time to respond to messages bc i tend to shut down when presented with too much information at once
i have a hard time understanding and processing information sometimes, please be patient with me 😵 also i have memory issues; i forget a ton of stuff, and it is NOT PERSONAL AT ALL.